The following story is one that many may relate to. The story may not be personal to you, but most have heard a similar version from somewhere, whether you choose to believe it or not is another story.
Once again, to ensure anonymity, the following story may have names, locations and any identifying information changed for privacy. Although I assure you, the story is in fact based on what the story teller’s believe to be true accounts.
“This experience happened when I was just a kid. I was only 8 or 9 years old at the time. I was asleep in my bed when something stirred me awake. As I rubbed my eyes something came into focus at the foot of my bed. It was my grandmother.
Grandma Helen looked very peaceful as she stood there. She told me she was proud of me and she would always be with me even if I couldn’t physically see her. She said she loved me and quietly told me to go back to sleep. I didn’t understand the importance of this visit until the next day.
Getting ready for school the next morning, my mom came into my room and sat down on my bed. She explained to me that while we were asleep, Grandma Helen passed away. I didn’t understand. I sat there listening but couldn’t grasp what she was saying.
Finally, I said, “I don’t understand. I saw her last night.” I then continued to explain the visit only hours before. She listened to me carefully and decided that Grandma Helen must have wanted to say goodbye before she went to heaven.
I know deep in my heart the experience I had was special and genuine, and I am grateful for it every day. I miss my grandmother greatly but believe we will meet again.”
I have been with my fiancé for six months and I would like to know if we are going to marry? – Anonymous
Tammy’s Psychic Answer:
Thank you for your question. I do believe emotions are running extremely high in this relationship. I wish to caution you about expressing yourself fully. You may think you are communicating your wants and needs but may actually be coming across a little obsessive and insecure and therefore pushing him further away.
For yourself, I see the need for some deep emotional healing. It may be time to find someone qualified to speak with about this and also other areas of your life. I do not want you to think I am blaming you for the relationship’s instability, rather I believe if some healing were done on your part, you will be able to see and understand the role you play as well as the path you choose to take for your future.
Remembering the expression, “time heals”, this healing will not be quick or easy, although pertinent. The strength of the relationship is not exactly rock solid, but with a LOT of work can be more positive. Learn to love yourself first before sharing that love with someone else.
It may be helpful for YOU to carry the rose quartz stone on your body. Placing it around your home and beside your bed is also a great idea. This is a stone of unconditional love. It helps restore trust and harmony in relationships and assists the heart with opening to all levels of love, self-love, friendship, deep inner healing and an over-all feeling of beautiful peace. I encourage the use of this soft pink stone and also encourage the consideration of professional guidance if you feel the need.